The short answer is yes. I enjoy the thrill of high places but I do get that vertigo feeling at first looking off a high building.
Comments, questions and thoughts answered by Thomas Zerbarini on various subjects including Aviation, Family, relationships and much more.
Tuesday, July 12, 2016
Do pilots ever get vertigo?
The short answer is yes. I enjoy the thrill of high places but I do get that vertigo feeling at first looking off a high building.
Thursday, July 7, 2016
What do I do between graduating at Embry Riddle and being hired as a professional pilot?
Answer by Thomas Zerbarini:
What do I do between graduating at Embry Riddle and being hired as a professional pilot?First of all, being a professional pilot is a mindset, an attitude an approach to how you act and behave as a pilot. So, you are a professional if you act like one. Check out these Code of Ethics I’ve posted on my blog.
Thomas Zerbarini – Code of Ethics
When you graduate you should be seeking to build your flight time and experience. Being an instructor and teaching is one of the best ways to gain knowledge and experience. Also, check out the many charter outfits out there looking for pilots and first officers. Right now, many charter companies are struggling to find enough pilots.
I’d also recommend doing some volunteer work in your spare time. Local community stuff and some aviation interest at a museum or airport too.
Keep your social media professional too. I can’t stress that enough.
It is a great time to get started as a professional pilot. Keep plugging away at gaining good experience and developing a well rounded “you.”
Thomas Zerbarini
Wednesday, July 6, 2016
My 15-year-old boy sneaks out of the house. What can I do?
My 15-year-old boy sneaks out of the house. What can I do?15 year old kids crave independence and freedom. They need and want to learn some things on their own.
Consider your statement of “a strict household.” I completely support good discipline, establishing rules and boundaries for children. As our kids get older they need more freedom to express and explore and learn.
I like the way Dr Julie Carbery put it in the article on Family Life,
Enter Dr. Julie Carbery, an adolescent and child psychotherapist, who has seen and heard it all in her twelve years of family practice. "What's going on is freedom. Freedom is cocaine to a teenager. It's intoxicating. It's addictive. And it is often their biggest motivator. They will do anything to get it, and they are terrified of losing it."
This article has great input and advice on managing teen freedom and building trust with your teen.
Further, a great article on Positive Parenting Your Teen give a good broad spectrum of points to consider as you shift from young child to Tween/Teen parenting skills.
Parenting tweens can be a challenge. Here's how to stay connected.
I’d like to add that listening, patience, non-verbal gestures of Love, and consistency with your growing and changing children is so important. I’d consider them the foundation to good parenting.
Thanks for the opportunity to share and comment.
Thomas Zerbarini